You’ve heard the story or perhaps you’ve told the story at some point in your life. You can’t get away or enjoy a weekend out because you’re a single mom. There may be times when it’s completely impossible to escape mommy duties for an entire weekend. However, careful and meticulous preparation can make it possible for any single mom to enjoy a weekend outside the home
Most moms will agree that the biggest problem regarding getting out for the weekend involves childcare. This is common and very understandable if you have little ones, but it’s not impossible to make arrangements for childcare. Relatives, church daycares or private sitters are an excellent option for single moms who need childcare while you go out for the evening. Make plans in the budget for childcare expenses, even if you must plan one or two months in advance. Remember to set aside funds for travel, food and lodging if necessary.
You may be wondering what’s a single mom to do during the weekend. The options are endless, and they don’t all require an overnight stay. If you are the single mom of younger kids, make plans to go out after work for a while or maybe an overnight stay in the city which you live. Go to a midnight movie, paint class, dance class, a mixer or some other social engagement. These are just a few ideas to incorporate into a nice weekend out. Make sure that your child is in reliable care. This alleviates the worry while you’re out and allows you to enjoy yourself to the fullest.
Most moms worry about their kids, even when they’re in the home with them. Therefore, it is almost impossible to not worry while you’re out. Prepare your kids for your absence by teaching them to be responsible in manners appropriate for their age. Practice safety precautions and discuss what to do in case of an emergency. These are habits you should instill in your child that can be used if and when they are needed. This also makes moms more comfortable knowing that their child knows what to do in an emergency. In addition to the children knowing what to do, leaving them in the care of a responsible adult or agency is added assurance that a weekend out will be enjoyable.
Being a single mother is not a condition or illness, it’s a mere joy to have been chosen as a mother to your beautiful child or children. Time away from the role is what makes it even more rewarding. You miss your kids, but you will thrive from at least a weekend out, as it allows you to reconnect with the adult in you. This is what allows you to replenish and give the best of you to the little ones you are responsible for in life. Never feel that you don’t deserve a night or a weekend away because you absolutely do and once it’s over, you’ll look forward to the next outing.
This blog was originally posted on midlifesinglemommy.com February 2018
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